Your time with an escort of your choice should be enjoyable and sexually fulfilling in every way. However, there are certain etiquettes you need to follow and abide by when meeting an escort for the first time as it will help make the ambience more pleasurable and comfortable for both the parties involved. Until the ice of formality is broken, it would become very difficult for the escort to go out of her way to pleasure you or for you to get the kind of ecstatic feeling you desire. In this article, we will talk in brief about the Escort etiquettes that you need to follow and keep in mind when meeting your choice of escort. This especially goes for the people who are booking an escort for the first time as these etiquettes will help you enjoy and get the kind of experience you were looking for with no strings attached. Rest assured there will be such a difference between the kind of experience you receive, when you follow and don’t follow these basic etiquettes. Hygiene and Cleanliness:

Escorts know what customers are looking for and because it is their profession, they are always at their best when they go in to meet their clients. It is always with the hope of making a long term client and that is why, rest assured you will get the finest of services when booking your escort. However, to help her in providing you what she wants to, the first thing that you need to take care of is hygiene and cleanliness. It is a basic etiquette and requirement for not only escorts but just about anyone to get intimate with you. If you do not come across as clean and you are smelly then the chances are that the escort will have a repulsive attitude towards you or may even cancel the appointment immediately. Since, you know when the appointment would be, it is best that you take a shower, put on some aftershave and wear fresh and crisp clothes. Your hair should be neatly combed and the whole appearance must be fresh, clean and appealing. The smell of your breath also plays a vital role and that is why chewing mints or brushing just minutes before the appointment is a good idea. Also, if you are going on an outcall, keep chewing a couple of mints while you are on the way. For people who are booking escorts for the first time, it is imperative that they keep these points in their mind, otherwise the whole experience might turn out to be something really different than what you expected. You can’t just think of your comfort as the escort needs to be comfortable too to be able to provide the kind of sexual fulfillment you desire.

Stay clean, fresh breath, smell good and wear nice clothes to make a good impression and make the escort feel comfortable around you. Health and Safety The escort industry has grown in the last couple of decades drastically to become even more sophisticated and gone are the days when there was no difference between prostitutes and escorts. Things are different and so is the overall fun. The advanced nature of the escort industry also reflects in the sophistication of how the business takes place and how every aspect of the business is taken care of whether it is fun, health or safety. However, escorts who are in this industry tend to come across people who are not accurately the most gentlemen of men. This is because many times when customers are suffering from some kind of health problem or have a disease, they tend to hide it and this puts escorts at the risk of getting affected by it as well. Health and safety are the primary concerns in the escort industry and whether you have booked an escort before and have experience in the escorts’ world or if you are booking escorts for the first time, you should know that you should clearly mention up-front if you have any health problems, diseases or even cuts and rashes.

If you are disabled in some way or would need  wheelchair access, you can let the agency or the escort know so that they can make feasible arrangements. If you think you just have a cold, cough or influenza and think it's not a big deal, you are wrong. While getting intimate with you, she runs the risk to get it too and this will affect her work majorly. So, whether it is something very serious or even something as small as a cut, rash or maybe even warts, make sure you inform the escort or agency upon making the booking. No matter what, in any situation, do not think of hiding any health condition which might put the escorts health or safety at risk. This can lead to great trouble for both of you later on and rest assured of a bitter experience in this case. In call and Outcall: If you are calling her at your home, apartment or hotel, make sure the place is located in a friendly neighborhood and that the ambience inside is friendly and cozy. It should not be too dark or give the sense of suspicion.

Escorts look for safety and security when on an outcall. Make sure that there are no guests present as an escort will not visit a property with more than one person. If you are bringing drinks, bring a sealed bottle as that is what is preferred. Giving drinks from an already opened bottle is not a good idea as even though you might be a gentleman; there have been cases of substance abuse through drinks on Escorts. When going to her place, make sure you are formal and respect her privacy. Do not be over friendly but yes, be courteous. Ask for permission before doing anything, it is necessary at the initial few minutes but later on, its fine once you have built a bond. It’s a sign of decency escorts look for. Do not be too loud or too demanding. It's her place so respect the place and make sure you do not share the address with anyone. Confidentiality is the key in this business. Tipping: Tipping is always a good idea, however, most often the prices you are charged are all inclusive and technically tipping is not required but it is definitely a good idea if the lady has met your expectations and gone the extra mile to bring that smile of satisfaction to your face. In the long term, your little tip will go a long way in guaranteeing you that extra bit which you require when it comes to sensual pleasure and complete satisfaction.

Everything You Need To Know About Golden Showers

While it might appear to be a seemingly new sexual activity, being turned on by bodily fluids is a relatively common desire, according to the experts. Golden showers, aka "water sports" are a sexual desire that more people experience that you might realize. The fetish for them is called "urolagnia," meaning "lust for urine." 

“It is more common than most people would think. It is as common as any other fetish that people have relating to sex,” psychologist Dr. Nikki Martinez explains. And though it might make you feel a bit grossed out (or get you excited, if that’s your thing), receiving, taking or giving a golden shower is often an exercise of trust within your relationship and being vulnerable. From what a golden shower really is to how to talk to your partner about it, the sex experts give their best scoop:

1. What Is A Golden Shower?

Most people (and hey, we might argue all people at some point) have peed while taking a shower, either at their home or while on vacation. The color of your urine mixed with the pouring water creates a yellow-ish shade and that’s how you might think about a golden shower. Except instead of swirling down the drain, the sexual fetish includes performing that act on someone else or having them perform it on you.

“It is during the act of foreplay of intercourse when one of the couple — more commonly the female to the male — urinates on their partner as part of the activity,” Martinez explains. “It is a sexual act of dominance and submission, with the person doing the urination as the dominant, and the one being urinated on being the one being dominated.”

If you can wrap your mind around it, just like you might enjoy finishing your load on her face (or her breasts or anywhere) - you might get another satisfaction from her peeing on you or if she’s into it, letting you pee on her. “For some people body fluids are a very erotic thing. Urine is one of the body fluids that is also eroticized, but not as openly as other fluids like ejaculate and spit."

2. Why Do People Like Golden Showers?

If the smell, the idea and the visual of this act doesn’t have you reaching for your willy, you may be wondering why in the world someone would willingly pee or be peed on. The experts offer some insight on what it could be a fun - and yes, unique - flavor to add to their sexual routine.

“Some people enjoy the degradation or humiliation component of it, some people enjoy engaging in it because it's taboo. There's no wrong or right reason to engage in it. As long as you and your partners are being safe and consensual, it's normal and healthy to explore your fetishes,” Riley explained.

Especially if your relationship is thrives with a little S&M or role playing, adding in the lubricant of a golden shower could take it to the next level. As sex educator and host of the live sex Q&A variety show Sex Ed A Go-GoDirty Lola explains: “The dominant/submissive dynamic and the humiliation aspect sometimes go hand-in-hand with a couple who enjoys golden showers. Peeing on the one you love can be seen as marking your territory.”

3. Are Golden Showers Healthy?

It’s true that urine has many healing aspects — it cures a painful jellyfish sting, can act as a natural disinfectant when you’re out of options and if boiled, can actually be consumed to save you from dying of thirst. But it also is full of bacteria, making this particular fetish a curious case for health.

But what works in your favor? The actual composition of urine is 95 percent water (hence why you technically could drink it) and 5% nutrients and minerals like calcium, iron, magnesium and zinc, according to clinical sexologist, Dawn Michael.

“As long as the people engaging in piss play are consenting to it, it is a totally fine fetish to be involved in. Urine is sterile, people can drink their own urine without posing a health risk, so the main concern with piss play to make sure you and your partner negotiate it and get consent on when, where and how of how to engage with this fetish,” Riley explains

4. What's The History Of Golden Showers?

While the actual sex term "golden shower" has been around since the 1940s, Merriam-Webster’s dictionary didn’t sanction it officially in its pages until 1968, as defined as "the act of urinating on another persona, usually as part of a sex act." 

"The term made its first most noted appearance in popular culture in former callgirl Xaviera Hollander's best-selling memoir The Happy Hooker in 1972. Since then the term has popped up in music, movies, TV and politics,” Lola notes.

While urolagnia doesn't receive a ton of exposure in popular media, there is an episode of Sex and the City where Carrie dates a politician who requests a golden shower after they’ve been dating for a while. After much deliberation, Carrie decides she can’t go through with it, thus ending their relationship.

But if you’re interested in trying this act and it’s important to your overall sexual happiness, approaching the topic in a meaningful, patient way is important.

5. How Can You Talk To Your Partner About Getting Into Golden Showers?

Before you go balls-to-the-wall (or ahem, the toilet), Riley suggests talking about sexual fetishes, in general.

“I highly recommend filling out a yes/no/maybe checklist with your partner to get an idea of what you all are interested in. Getting more involved in the kink and fetish scenes in your city might also be a great way to build community with other people who share your fetishes. Asking them how they brought it up with their partners might also help give you ideas of where to start,” she notes.

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